Texas Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
Here at Papouli’s, it is our heart to serve more than just food. We desire to serve people through community partnerships, to give a voice to the issues that surround our community and provide connections and support for the vital organizations that address these challenges. This month we highlight Texas Grandparents Raising Grandchildren, TxGRG.
On November 2, Generation United released their 2022 State of Grandfamilies Report. It found that the numbers have increased to 2.5 million children being raised by someone in their family or a close friend. The report also indicates that grandparents have become parents again in over 2.4 million homes across America, which covers a wide range of socioeconomic backgrounds. Both of these statistics mean that a parent is not present in the child’s life or home. Sadly, this concerning and growing trend for grandparents already in poverty and unable to work, make adding young children to the family dynamic overwhelming. On top of that, the struggle of the acute and chronic issues that all of these grandparents face when these children present with many symptoms on a biological and emotional level after being removed from the poor environments they were in and makes many grandparents feel like they are drowning. This is a crucial point where the generational patterns can begin to repeat because the unseen internal wounds are sometimes never addressed.
Mercedes Bristol was one of those grandparents. She did not realize the journey she would begin when she came to be the sole provider for her five young grandchildren. Not only did she have the immediate needs of food, clothing, shelter, and legal matters in order to get anything done, the children had also suffered through various traumas starting from birth. As she encountered countless challenges in this new reality with little support, she knew something needed to be done.
Starting with a small support group, she has created an organization whose mission it is to advocate for grandparents raising grandchildren by providing resources, information, and support. They are motivated by the vision that all grandfamilies are resourced, connected, and thriving as a family, mobilizing and advocating for themselves and others. Ms. Bristol has become a strong advocate for many in the community, much of the experience coming from her own fight, as she continues her own personal journey of raising grandchildren. She is a warrior on the frontlines and is lighting the pathway of change by testifying before lawmakers on the city, state and federal level to prompt changes within our system that are not bandaids for the symptoms, but true solutions for the deep rooted issues that need to be addressed in order to change the futures of the generations to come.
Her battle is heavy at times but her passion is a hope to others and a strength for many when they cannot find it within themselves. Without her, many would not have a voice. Supporting Texas Grandparents Raising Grandchildren is a way to affect positive change and to bring healing to families that have faced some of the deep levels of brokenness. Fredrick Douglass once said, “It is easier to raise strong children than to repair broken men.” One look at the world around us and the truth of this quote is evident in many ways.
This month at Papouli’s, it is a joy to honor and bring awareness to an organization that helps so many Papoulis and Yia Yias, as we call them around here. We want to show them gratitude by reaching out in the spirit of giving during this Thanksgiving season. When you visit the store this month, you will see our giving tree filled with QR codes you can take for yourself or pass out to friends so they can give in support of this incredible mission.
November 29th is giving Tuesday so don’t forget about donating to TxGRG on that day when giving or to our other community partner and next months’s feature, Alpha Home, a women’s inpatient and outpatient substance abuse treatment center. The tree and our blog will feature information on the mission of both and how to give.
But you don’t have to wait to donate either!! Scan the QR code below to give to Texas Grandparents Raising Grandchildren. Your support helps to build a legacy for the families of our community.
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